Friday, May 24, 2013

Memorial Day

The Few, The Proud,
The Marines
 
 Ken Winkel
Vietnam 1968-1969
 





 
Well done dad.  Proud to call you my father.
 
 
Written by Kyle Winkel, 5/2004 :
The year was 1968, America was at war in a foreign land.  As the need for more soldiers increased, the military instituted a draft.  At 4:00 AM on February 28th, 1968, Ken and his mom left Mapleton, UT for the Provo train station.  Just 6 days earlier, Ken’s draft number was called.  He was to be drafted within 1 to 4 months into the Army, but not wanting to wait, Ken chose to enlist immediately in the Marines.  That decision would alter the course of history and establish a legacy that neither his children nor future generations would ever forget.
 
The drive from Mapleton to Provo must have been a solemn, silent ride.  One can only imagine the thoughts that flooded his mother’s mind, knowing that her son was about to serve their country in severe combat thousands of miles from home.   As he took his seat on the bus, he looked out the window toward his mother.  She sat hunched over the steering wheel, head in hands, weeping for her son.  Throughout the duration of his tour of duty, she must have petitioned the Lord to keep her son safe.  On many occasions her prayers were heard.  Her son was miraculously preserved despite experiencing countless heavy combat situations.
 
From the bus in Provo, Ken traveled to Salt Lake City and boarded a plane for San Diego, CA.  After suffering through a grueling 11weeks of boot camp and 12 weeks of infantry training, followed by a brief reprieve at home and more training, he was flown to Vietnam to complete his 2 year tour of duty.  Ken was trained as a machine gunner.  It was said that in a fire fight, the life expectancy of a machine gunner was roughly 30 seconds.  Throughout his tour, he managed to escape numerous combat situations with only minor injuries.
 
On the morning of August 16, 1969, Ken’s commanding officer came to him and told him that his rotation date was moved up.  He was to pack his bags, turn in his rifle, and get ready to fly to Danang the next morning.  Oh the joy of returning home!  He quickly got a letter off to his family so that they would know his rotation date had arrived.  He was certainly ready to leave the war and the Marines behind.  His tour of duty was indeed challenging and he anxiously awaited his flight home! 
 
That night at about 10:00 PM, Ken was rewinding film in the officer’s tent.  The tent was really more than a tent.  It had a tin roof and was more of a permanent structure.  As Ken rewound the film, 82mm mortar fire began raining over the compound, tearing through the tin roof where Ken was working.  Instinctively, he rushed for the cover of a nearby trench.  Ken was home bound and mortar fire certainly wasn’t going to keep him from getting home.  After the mortar fire ceased, the soldiers of the compound came out of cover.  A few officers, who hadn’t seen combat, were examining the impressions in the ground made by the mortars.  Two mortars ironically landed in nearly the same place.  Ken pointed out to the officers that given the direction and distance the dirt was displaced, the enemy was firing from quite some distance away. 
 
As Ken and a few officers examined the impressions, the familiar sound of 82mm mortar fire was heard overhead.  Ken leaped for the trench a second time, landing on his back inside the safety of the trench.  Others followed landing on and around him.  As the fire ceased, Ken realized that he had been hit.  Three quarter sized holes appeared in his right thigh.  He immediately thought, if no one knows I’m hit, I’ll still go home in the morning.  However, an injury that sever could not be disguised.  A doctor in the trench with him saw his injury and prepared him to fly to Danang the next morning.  Just 10 hours before leaving for home, he was severely injured.  That injury would ultimately delay his flight home roughly 3 months.
 
The morning of August 17th, in the army hospital, First Med in Danang, doctors cut away all the torn and damaged muscle tissues.  The three quarter-sized holes grew to roughly ¼ of his right thigh.  Following this surgery Ken was sedated and slept.  A few hours later, he awoke to find that his bandages were completely soaked in blood.  A medic came and wrapped more bandages around his leg, sedated him and left.  A few hours later, Ken awoke again to find the new bandages also soaked through with blood.  A second time, the same medic wrapped more bandages around his leg, sedated him, then left.  The third time, Ken awoke to find the bandages soaked through with blood and blood trickling down his leg.  This time, the medic didn’t add to Ken’s bandages.  Instead, he called a doctor who cut away the existing, blood soaked bandages.  Under the bandages, the doctor removed handfuls of clotted blood to find a single artery shooting a small stream of blood with every heartbeat.  By this time, Ken had bled for more than a day.  Despite a substantial loss of blood, somehow Ken managed to survive.  Furthermore, despite heavy sedation, he awoke and had enough cognizance to summon a medic for assistance.  I am convinced that God’s hand preserved that young man’s life.  Ken’s suffering in First Med was but a mere fraction of what was to come.
 
Upon discovering the unplugged artery, the doctor promptly tied a knot in it which stopped the bleeding.  He then proceeded without applying anesthesia to sear the exposed raw muscle tissue of Ken’s leg to prevent any future bleeding.  The intensity of the pain was so severe that 6 men had to hold Ken to the bed while the doctor cauterized his open wound.  The combination of blood loss and extreme pain left Ken almost lifeless.
 
From First Med, Ken was transferred to an Air Force hospital.  There the staff treated him well and fed him breakfast.  Shortly after breakfast, Ken was flown to Manilla, Phillipines.  In Manilla, he was given an apple.  It had been a long time since he had been offered an apple.  The juicy, sweet satisfaction didn’t last long.  Ken couldn’t keep the food down.  His apple and his breakfast all came back up.
 
From Manilla, Ken was flown to Guam.  It was on Guam that he was diagnosed with malaria.  Hence the reason for his body rejecting food.  For 3 weeks Ken couldn’t eat.  His strong, young frame lost 70 pounds.  In addition, his severe leg wound was infected.  The infection traveled up his leg into his hip.  Doctors ran disinfectant solutions through tubes inserted into his thigh, running up into his hip.  Yet, the infection grew worse.  Doctors’ prognosis was bleak.  If the infection could not be suspended, Ken would lose his leg. 
 
Knowing that doctors would amputate his leg if the infection wasn’t stopped, Ken contacted a corpman from Provo, Utah working in the Guam hospital.  He requested that the corpman find 2 melchezedic priesthood holders to administer to him.  Later that day, 2 priesthood holders pronounced a blessing upon Ken.  From that time forward, the infection miraculously abated and the malaria was overcome.  Now on the mend, doctors performed 3 more surgeries to Ken’s right leg.  Then, in October of 1969, Ken was flown to an Air Force hospital in Oakland, California for recovery.
 
Due to the extensive damage in his right leg, Air Force doctors in Oakland stated that Ken would never walk normally again.  It’s possible that Ken didn’t hear the doctors right or perhaps he was determined to walk in spite of the doctors’ prognosis.  For five weeks in the Oakland hospital, Ken walked up and down nine floors of stairs everyday.  Of course, he didn’t start out walking the nine floors.  He began by dragging his injured leg around his room, then gradually increased as his strength returned.  He willed his leg to work again.
 
In late November, Ken finally returned home walking with only a slight limp.  His first Sunday home, he met the woman that he would someday marry.  His determination and will power was a blessing in his children’s lives.  We will always see our father as one who overcame unbelievable odds.  Our father is a great man.  One that we hope to emulate as we raise our children.

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

School's Out For Summer!

I don't have to drag myself out of bed early in the morning for almost 3 months!  Here's Kendra coming home on her last day of 1st grade:

 

She looks super excited doesn't she?


Sister love



Daddy girls


I can reach my toes!  I'm learning to roll over!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Preschool Graduation

Megan graduated from her first year of preschool.  I love that her "ceremony" was done at a park. 


Here's Megan with her teacher receiving her diploma and award.

This is her little class. I hope they can be together for preschool next year.

Mark had a daddy daughter day with the oldest two on Saturday.  Can't wait 'till he takes all three!!

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Next Door

I woke before 2 am to police and ambulance at our neighbor's home.  By 4 our yard and street were taped off with crime tape.  It's common here to see police or ambulances, but crime tape?  That was new.  That means something bad has happened.  (We actually live in a relatively safe area).  Mark was interviewed but apparently the news didn't like what he said so they used our other neighbor instead.  The neighbors involved have always been kind to us and we've enjoyed them.  Our hearts ache that a reactive decision will hurt them and their family.

Here is the link to the story:

http://www.kob.com/article/11687/

Friday, May 17, 2013

Without You

Here's Shoni's (my sister) last school video.  She's getting married and moving to Texas.  I tried to upload it but couldn't figure it out...so here's the website:

http://vimeo.com/66283409

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Watermelon Dresser

I bought a cheap, old, ugly dresser when I was pregnant with Megan.  It was plywood with a laminate covering.  The laminate was peeling and it was ugly.  I always wanted to repaint it but could never decide how to do it.  I couldn't sand it because of the plywood.  I recently read a blog about someone who never sands her wood.  She just spray paints everything!  So that is what I did.  Spray paint smells something fierce, even when it's outside, so I don't think I'll use spray paint again.

So here is the end result:


See where the laminate peeled?
 I had to hand paint the hardware because they were stuck in there!  That took forever.  Still pretty though.  I'm thinking the room needs some turquoise to go with this watermelon color and grey zigzag curtains.

I found a blog: cutegirlshairstyles.com - I figure since I have three I should start doing their hair cute.


Kylee has fat legs - with a roll that stays there even when her leg is straight!  Awesome.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Ninety And Nine

I grew up listening and loving Michael McLean music.  For Christmas Mark bought me a cd with my old school favorites to listen to in the car with the girls.  They pick up lyrics very quickly and we wanted them to sing uplifting songs.  I found this beauty on youtube and loved it.


Mark bought me another cd for Mothers Day with this song.  I like it because I'm one of the 99 like so many others.  We often focus on  the one not among us, while sometimes, the ones who need the most love and attention are in front of us.

That brings me to another tangent.  Love and attention.  I made that up when I was teaching school.  I realized that from kids to adults, all a person needs is love and attention.  Each individual needs to feel loved and valued.  People rise and are lifted as they receive "love and attention."  So here's to the ninety and nine.

Saturday, May 11, 2013

All About Megan

This is what happens when you are running down hill trying to catch up with your sister:
 

Megan loves to chase the chickens and be chased by them:
 
 
 
 
And this is what happens when you pick up chickens:
"Mommy, the chicken pooped on me!"

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Incredible Kid

Kendra's school has "incredible kid day" every year.  Parents or other are to write a letter to their child telling them how incredible they are.  Here is the letter Mark and I wrote to Kendra.


Here’s to our incredible daughter

K ind

E nergetic

N eat

D iligent

R espectful

A ctive

 

What makes you so incredible Keni Lyn?  To begin with you are our first little girl.  We were so excited to have you.  You were such a fun, hilarious little baby.  You loved to laugh and make us laugh…you still do!  That is one thing we love about you – your happy little spirit and the joy you bring into our home.  You have always been able to make Megan laugh much harder than anyone else.  You are such a good sister to her and to Kylee.  They both look up to you and love you so much.  That is another thing that makes you incredible.  You are a good example to your two younger sisters.  They will always watch your example and will want to be like you.  We are so proud of you for making good decisions and choosing the right.  You are not only a good example to your sisters but also to your friends.  We hope you will always be an influence for good as you continue to grow. 

 

As a baby you were very obedient.  That has carried on with you in your school age years.  You still want to do what is right and to please your parents, teachers, and those around you.  Obedience is a gift you were born with.  We are so grateful for your obedience and know your Heavenly Father is happy with you too. 

 

Last year and into this year you struggled with anxiety.  It was hard to keep so much fear inside your body.  You were willing to go to Miss Nicole and as you learned to express yourself more the fear was able to leave.  We are so happy that you are willing to talk to us and tell us things that you do, even if you know you might get in trouble.  That is incredible!  We love that you are honest.  We love that you tell us about your day at school, your friends, and what you like to do. 

 

We know you like monster high.  But because we don’t like monster high we haven’t allowed you to buy any dolls or print out their pictures.  Even though you love it you have been so good to listen to us and respect our desires.  That makes you incredible!  What an amazing 1st grader you are that you would honor your mom and dad and their wishes.  You are incredible in the way you listen to your mom and dad.

 

We have never been good at using your chore chart.  One reason is because you are so good to do things when asked.  Whenever we need help, or need you to do something you are always willing to do it.  How incredible is that!?!  What six year old doesn’t need a chore chart because she does chores when asked?  Kendra!  Thank you for always being willing to do the trash, put your clothes away, help Megan put her clothes away, collect chicken eggs, clean toilets, pull weeds, sweep the floor, do dishes, and the list could go on and on.  You are such a wonderful helper and chore doer.

 

Well Keni Lyn we are so happy to have you in our home.  You bring energy, fun, laughter, joy, and tenderness.  We love you.  You are our precious. 

 

Love,

Mom & Dad

Megan & Kylee

Monday, April 29, 2013

The Last Week

I think Mark will cut his hair now...
 




The finished result:


Our little 3 month old



 
Megan loves it when sissy comes home from school.  Kendra is reading her homework to her.


The girls love to print pictures out.  They then color and cut them.  These are played with in the place of dolls.  I thought if I laminated them they wouldn't want to print any more out.  I'm running out of printer paper, not to mention ink!  But they just love it...so I let them.

Friday, April 19, 2013

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

From The Heart

Last week I did not go to the doctor!  Megan said her ear hurt for a couple of days.  I was like, "didn't you get the memo kid?  This is our doctor free week!"  Luckily after two days she stopped complaining.  Now I shall challenge the forces of the universe to see if we can go TWO WEEKS!

I wish I was better at expressing myself through words.  My heart is overflowing with gratitude. I have three little girls.  I've never had a miscarriage.  Although pregnancy, birth, and infants are difficult for me, I've been able to have three with, compared to others, little complication.

My neighbor has always wanted a large family.  She is now pregnant with her second and, after preterm labor with her first at 34 weeks, and with her second at 22 weeks, she has been informed that she may only be able to have two. 

My friend at church yearns for the opportunity to have a baby but is now considering adoption.

The stories could continue. 

So as I write on my blog of the craziness of having three, it is in no way complaining.  I love that I have three; I am so blessed, lucky, and grateful. I was terrified to have Kylee because my PPD (postpartum depression) was so bad with Megan.  This time around the difficulty has been more physical (pregnancy and recovery) rather than emotional/mental.  When Megan was a couple months old I was asked to talk to the young women about how wonderful it was to have a baby and I couldn't do it.  So life presents its problems to us in different ways.  Some have the challenge of not having babies, my challenge is having them.  But I love that I could have them.

I think we are FINALLY done with thrush.  What a pain that was. 

Megan is sleeping better.  That kid has been the worst sleeper ever.  After Kylee was born Megan began to sleep through the night maybe every other night.  It is now becoming more of a pattern and she has gone like three nights in a row! 

Kendra hasn't had diarrhea associated with anxiety since January.  I'm not sure what happened but she sure is a happy kid now.



Look at those two.  What's not to love?

Sandia Sunset

Sandia Sunset
Our mountains are beautiful in the evenings. We took this picture from our backyard.